TRADITIONS
CHECKLIST
From the AA Grapevine
These
questions were originally published in the AA Grapevine in conjunction with a
series on the Twelve Traditions that began in November 1969 and ran through
September 1971. While they were originally intended primarily for individual
use, many AA groups have since used them as a basis for wider discussion.
Practice These Principles . . .
Tradition
One:
Our common welfare should come first; personal recovery depends on AA
unity.
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Am I in my group a healing,
mending, integrating person, or am I divisive? What about gossip and taking
other member's inventories?
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Am I a peacemaker? Or do I, with
pious preludes such as “just for the sake of discussion,” plunge into
argument?
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Am I gentle with those who rub me
the wrong way, or am I abrasive?
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Do I make competitive AA remarks,
such as comparing one group with another or contrasting AA in one place with
AA in another?
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Do I put down some AA activities
as if I were superior for not participating in this or that aspect of AA?
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Am I informed about AA as a whole?
Do I support, in every way I can, AA as a whole, or just the parts I
understand and approve of?
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Am I as considerate of AA members
as I want them to be of me?
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Do I spout platitudes about love
while indulging in and secretly justifying behavior that bristles with
hostility?
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Do I go to enough AA meetings or
read enough AA literature to really keep in touch?
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Do I share with AA all of me, the
bad and the good, accepting as well as giving the help of the fellowship?
Tradition
Two:
For our group purpose there is but one ultimate authority—a loving GOD as
HE may express Himself in our group conscience. Our leaders are but trusted
servants; they do not govern.
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Do I criticize or do I trust and
support my group officers, AA committees, and office workers? Newcomers?
Old-timers?
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Am I absolutely trustworthy, even
in secret, with AA Twelfth Step jobs or other AA responsibility?
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Do I look for credit in my AA
jobs? Praise for my AA ideas?
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Do I have to save face in group
discussion, or can I yield in good spirit to the group conscience and work
cheerfully along with it?
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Although I have been sober a few
years, am I willing to serve my turn at AA chores?
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In group discussions, do I sound
off about matters on which I have no experience and little knowledge?
Tradition
Three:
The only requirement for AA membership is a desire to stop drinking.
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In my mind, do I prejudge some new
AA members as losers?
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Is there some kind of alcoholic
whom I privately do not want in my AA group?
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Do I set myself up as a judge of
whether a newcomer is sincere or phony?
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Do I let language, religion (or
lack of it), race, education, age, or other such things interfere with my
carrying the message?
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Am I over impressed by a
celebrity? By a doctor, a clergyman, and ex-convict? Or can I just treat
this new member simply and naturally as one more sick human, like the rest
of us?
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When someone turns up at AA
needing information or help (even if he can’t ask for it aloud), does it
really matter to me what he does for a living? Where he lives? What his
domestic arrangements are? Whether he had been to AA before? What his other
problems are?
Tradition
Four:
Each group should be autonomous except in matters affecting other groups
or AA as a whole.
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Do I insist that there are only a
few right ways of doing things in AA?
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Does my group always consider the
welfare of the rest of AA? Of nearby groups? Of loners in Alaska? Of
internationalists miles from port? Of a group in Rome or El Salvador?
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Do I put down other members’
behavior when it is different from mine, or do I learn from it?
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Do I always bear in mind that, to
those outsiders who know I am in AA, I may to some extent represent our
entire beloved Fellowship?
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Am I willing to help a newcomer go
to any lengths – his lengths, not mine – to stay sober?
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Do I share my knowledge of AA
tools with other members who may not have heard of them?
Tradition
Five:
Each group has but one primary purpose – to carry its message to the
alcoholic who still suffers.
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Do I ever cop out by saying,
“I’m not a group, so this or that Tradition doesn’t apply to me”?
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Am I willing to explain firmly to
a newcomer the limitations of AA help, even if he gets mad at me for not
giving him a loan?
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Have I today imposed on any AA
member for a special favor or consideration simply because I am a fellow
alcoholic?
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Am I willing to twelfth-step the
next newcomer without regard to who or what is in it for me?
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Do I help my group in every way I
can to fulfill our primary purpose?
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Do I remember that AA old-timers,
too, can be alcoholics who still suffer? Do I try both to help them and to
learn from them?
Tradition
Six:
An AA group ought never endorse, finance, or lend the AA name to any
related facility or outside enterprise, lest problems of money, property, and
prestige divert us from our primary purpose.
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Should my fellow group members and
I go out and raise money to endow several AA beds in our local hospital?
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Is it good for a group to lease a
small building?
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Are all the officers and members
of our local club for AAs familiar with “Guidelines on Clubs” (which is
available free from GSO)?
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Should the secretary of our group
serve on the mayor’s advisory committee on alcoholism?
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Some alcoholics will stay around
AA only if we have a TV and card room. If this is what is required to carry
the message to them, should we have these facilities?
Tradition
Seven:
Every AA group ought to be fully self-supporting, declining outside
contributions.
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Honestly now, do I do all I can to
help AA (my group, my central office, my GSO) remain self-supporting? Could
I put a little more into the basket on behalf of the new guy who can’t
afford it yet? How generous was I when tanked in a barroom?
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Should the Grapevine sell
advertising space to book publishers and drug companies, so it could make a
big profit and become a bigger magazine, in full color, at a cheaper price
per copy?
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If GSO runs short of funds some
year, wouldn’t it be okay to let the government subsidize AA groups in
hospitals and prisons?
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Is it more important to get a big
AA collection from a few people, or a smaller collection in which more
members participate?
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Is a group treasurer’s report
unimportant AA business? How does the treasurer feel about it?
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How important in my recovery is
the feeling of self-respect, rather than the feeling of being always under
obligation for charity received?
Tradition
Eight:
Alcoholics Anonymous should remain forever nonprofessional, but our
service centers may employ special workers.
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Is my own behavior accurately
described by the Traditions? If not, what needs changing?
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When I chafe about any particular
Tradition, do I realize how it affects others?
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Do I sometimes try to get some
reward – even if not money – for my personal AA efforts?
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Do I try to sound in AA like an
expert on alcoholism? On recovery? On medicine? On sociology? On AA itself?
On psychology? On spiritual matters? Or, heaven help me, even on humility?
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Do I make an effort to understand
what AA employees do? What workers in other alcoholism agencies do? Can I
distinguish clearly among them?
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In my own AA life, have I any
experiences which illustrate the wisdom of this Tradition.
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Have I paid enough attention to
the book Twelve Steps and Twelve Traditions? To the pamphlet AA Tradition
– How It Developed?
Tradition
Nine:
AA, as such, ought never be organized; but we may create service boards or
committees directly responsible to those they serve.
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Do I still try to boss things in
AA?
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Do I resist formal aspects of AA
because I fear them as authoritative?
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Am I mature enough to understand
and use all elements of the AA program – even if no one makes me do so –
with a sense of personal responsibility?
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Do I exercise patience and
humility in any AA job I take?
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Am I aware of all those to whom I
am responsible in any AA job?
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Why doesn’t every AA group need
a constitution and bylaws?
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Have I learned to step out of an
AA job gracefully – and profit thereby – when the time comes?
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What has rotation to do with
anonymity? With humility?
Tradition
Ten:
Alcoholics Anonymous has no opinion on outside issues; hence the AA name
ought never be drawn into public controversy.
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Do I ever give the impression that
there really is an “AA opinion” on Antabuse? Tranquilizers? Doctors?
Psychiatrists? Churches? Hospitals? Jails? Alcohol? The federal government?
Legalizing marijuana? Vitamins? Al-Anon? Alateen?
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Can I honestly share my own
personal experience concerning any of those without giving the impression I
am stating the “AA opinion”?
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What in AA history gave rise to
our Tenth Tradition?
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Have I had a similar experience in
my own AA life?
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What would AA be without this
Tradition? Where would I be?
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Do I breach this or any of its
supporting Traditions in subtle, perhaps unconscious, ways?
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How can I manifest the spirit of
this Tradition in my personal life outside AA? Inside AA?
Tradition
Eleven:
Our public relations policy is based on attraction rather than
promotion; we need always maintain personal anonymity at the level of press,
radio, and films.
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Do I sometimes promote AA so
fanatically that I make it seem unattractive?
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Am I always careful to keep the
confidences reposed in me as an AA member?
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Am I careful about throwing AA
names around – even within the Fellowship?
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Am I ashamed of being a recovered,
or recovering, alcoholic?
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What would AA be like if we were
not guided by the ideas in Tradition Eleven? Where would I be?
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Is my sobriety attractive enough
that a sick drunk would want such a quality for himself?
Tradition
Twelve:
Anonymity is the spiritual foundation of all our Traditions, ever
reminding us to place principles before personalities.
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Why is it a good idea for me to
place the common welfare of all AA members before individual welfare? What
would happen to me if AA as a whole disappeared?
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When I do not trust AA’s current
servants, who do I wish had the authority to straighten them out?
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In my opinions of and remarks
about other AAs, am I implying membership requirements other than a desire
to stay sober?
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Do I ever try to get a certain AA
group to conform to my standards, not its own?
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Have I a personal responsibility
in helping an AA group fulfill its primary purpose? What is my part?
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Does my personal behavior reflect
the Sixth Tradition – or belie it?
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Do I do all I can to support AA
financially? When is the last time I anonymously gave away a Grapevine
subscription?
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Do I complain about certain AAs’
behavior – especially if they are paid to work for AA? Who made me so
smart?
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Do I fulfill all AA
responsibilities in such a way as to please privately even my own
conscience? Really?
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Do my utterances always reflect
the Tenth Tradition, or do I give AA critics real ammunition?
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Should I keep my AA membership a
secret, or reveal it in private conversation when that may help another
alcoholic (and therefore me)? Is my brand of AA so attractive that other
drunks want it?
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What is the real importance of me
among more than a million AAs?
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